Witnessing domestic violence
My mom’s ex boyfriend keeps calling and every time he calls I get really upset and angry. He used to live with us and he abused my mom and me for 7 years. I still get nightmares about the stuff he used to do to us. My mom just doesn’t get it. She still talks to him and lets him come over and visit. We get into arguments because I don’t want to see him but she thinks I’m overreacting. It makes me so mad that she still lets him into our lives after all that he’s done to us.
I’m sorry that you are going through this – it sounds like a tough situation. I can see why you feel upset and angry every time your mom’s ex boyfriend calls. It sounds like your mom and you don’t see eye to eye on how dangerous her ex-boyfriend is. If you feel unsafe at home, I would encourage you to come into our chat room and speak to a Teen Counselor and we can help you think of a safety plan.
girl, i really feel bad for you and i’m sorry you half to put up with that stupid stuff anyway. GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING!!!:)
Hey this is Jamellah and yes I bet it’s a hard time having to deal with a person that you dont like and someone you are very close to likes alot so what you have to do is tell your mother that you dont like him coming over and if she doesn’t really pay attention to what you say then when he comes up to the picture then dont mind your mother nor him any attention and it will show that your mother knows that that guy is really effecting you and she shouldn’t bring him around or talk about him while your’e around so I wish you well and keep trying to do whatever you can do!
Remind your mother that you rely on her for support, and you have ever since you were born. Also remind her that she is the adult in this situation, and needs to start thinking straight. Tell her that you love her, and she needs to see that you are scared.
i really feel bad for you because my neighbor was in a domestic relationship for about 4 years and we kept telling her that he was no good.I REALLY FEEL BAD FOR YOU AND I HOPE YOU HAVE GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR MOM!work it out
I think that you need to just sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel. You carnt keep thing bottled up like this and you need to tell someone.
Good luck with everything.
=] Krissy =]…//xx.
that really sucks… i hope your mom understands soon, i would just stay away from that guy.
Talk to someone and try to get help cause you need to get out that relationship
Try to calmly talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about him and when you are around him. Just don’t overreact. Yelling or throwing tantrums might create tension between you two. Good Luck!!!!
talk to your mother about why shes still inviteing him over even though he abused you 4 7 years
i know how u feel. the exact same thing happened me too. the only thing i worried about was my younger brother and sister. if u sit down and talk with ur mom maybe she’ll see how dangerous he actually is. if she doesnt already know what he did to u it mite be a good thing to tell her so she knows. everything will work out in the end. good luck
I know how you feel and no one sould have to go through stuff like tat just keep your head up and whatever happens dont loose faith
donna b lives in a tree and she will help you with all your messed up problems