Teen Relationships

We had sex and like each other but he still has a girlfriend. What do I do?

admin — Mon, 12 May 2008 22:22:18 +0000

okay so i met this boy at a friends party. i met him through my friend [which is his
cousin]. we both exchanged hugs & later on by the end of the night we were making
out. we kept talking few days after that constantly. we began to date about a week
later. then i broke up with him because there were several times in which he asked
if i was down to have sex with him. even after i told him that i wasnt like that and
that i was a virgin. he said hed wait for me as long as it took, what most guys say.
the next time we saw eachother, which was 4 days later, he asked me if i was already
ready. wow, what a way to wait “as long as it took.” so i talked to him about it and
he told me that he just figured its what i wanted and that it wasnt that big of a
deal. so i borke up with him because i didnt want to be going out with someone if
thats all they wanted or if they couldnt be with me without constantly thinking
about having sex. i borke up with him that night and we still kept talki!
ng every single day after that. even more than usual. it was as if we had become
best friends. a month later i realized that i really liked this boy. and that i
felt like i was ready to give him another chance because he had proved to me that
thats not all he really wanted. one day as we were talking i noticed him being a
little weird. i mentioned it & he said myabe it was because he had a new
girlfriend. i was surprised when he said that. im not gonna lie or deny the fact
that i cried. it hit me real hard. i kind of tried forgetting about him but it
didnt work. there was only one buy who i tried talking to but later on he turned
into a big time jerk spreading rumors and talking shit. so that only made me bounce
back to the only guy i could really rely on, which was jonathan. weve been talking
alot ever since we broke up. and now, 4 moths after the break up, weve become more
than best friends. we had sex about 2 weeks ago. i dont know how it happened it
just did. hes stil d!
ating this girl, but according to him its because he cant break up wit
h her now because her brothers are threatening him if he hurts her. he claims that
the past several times theyve hung out he hasnt had any feelings for her. i dont
know what to believe anymore. weve talked about this almost every night for the past
month. i told him that if he really does like her then he shouldnt have to deny it
to me. id rather him stay with her than lie to me. my question is, what should i do?
keep waiting for him to break up with her? or move on?

What’s going on?? I haven’t been myself since we broke up.

admin — Mon, 05 May 2008 17:00:27 +0000

my boyfriend and i broke up with each other in september, and i still, after 8
months, haven’t gotten over him.
the reason for our separation is totally ridiculous, and i remeber half of it.
my parents didnt want me dating, his friends didnt want him dating me, we were too
scared and immature to handle a relationship. but now, he’s released himself from
his friends, and my parents are at peace about me dating, but i just dont know how
to tell him that i still feel alot of [i dont know if i should say love] strong
feelings towards him. and im moving in about two months, so it wont even matter.
and i know it sounds neive, seeing as its been used in a shallow manor before by
girls just my age, but i know that im in love with him. after we broke up, i havent
been the same. i sleep either all the time or not at all, my weight is bouncing up
and down the scale, i have huge bags under my eyes now [which is not the most
attractive thing], and ive lost my ever so fond good sense of humor, or at least
carrying on a good conversation for that matter. ive met alot of guys after him, but
they just dont seem to ammount. i just dont feel the same, or better around them.
i havent sang in a few months, which is amazing for me, because singing used to
be like eating , [a usual thing].
before our relationship, we were good friends for a year. now that we’ve crossed the
line between couple and friends, we havent been able to go back.
the timing of our relationship was just so wrong, and al l i want to do is start
over. i cant even do that now! its not like i havent tried getting over him, but
i cant deny what i know is real.

i only hope that things will unfold rightfully, but id also love to know if i
could help things to unfold rightfully in any way.
sorry this was so long, hope you can get back to me with help soon.

Do I tell him that I love him?

admin — Thu, 24 Apr 2008 21:44:54 +0000

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I care about him a lot and I’m starting to feel that it’s now love instead of just like. We never say we love each other and I want to tell him I do, but I’m afraid that he might not feel the same way. I don’t know what I should do.

Should I be worried?

admin — Thu, 17 Apr 2008 20:07:32 +0000

I have a tough situation. I met this guy like a couple of weeks ago. We’re already
acting like we’re together. Calling each other baby and etc. We have a lot in
common. He’s like the guy i always wanted. He lives in Las Vegas and i live in LA
and he’s moving down here for me. He’s told me a lot about him and other girls up on
him. I get worried when he doesn’t pick up my calls. He even has his ex first on his
top. Should i be worried?

What do I do when my ex hates the new person that I like?

admin — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:06:39 +0000

Okay, so I was dating this guy for some time now, and he gets really mad when I tell
him that I don’t want to have sex. He threatend to leave me if I don’t. And
sometimes I’d rather not be heartbroken, so I do it. Well, he left me a few days ago
and yes i’m heartbroken but he still calls me and tries to have sex. I’m starting to
like someone that he doesn’t like very much, well, more like he hates him, what
should I do?

Help! I feel like I would date anyone to avoid being alone.

admin — Wed, 16 Apr 2008 18:04:32 +0000

I havent had a boyfriend in a while and ive been feeling really desperate. So ive
been flirting with all kinds of guys. I even told one of my friends that i would
date anyone so i wouldnt have to be alone. What is wrong with me!? And what should i
do?

How do I tell him/her that I like someone else?

admin — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:55:41 +0000

I wanted to if your in a relationship with a boy or a girl
but you like another boy or girl but u don’t know how to tell that boy or girl that
u like someone else.

Is it wrong for me to date my ex’s friend?

admin — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:54:58 +0000

me and my boyfriend of on and off for 6 years just broke up and im totally done with
him well for a little more than year now me and one of his really close friends
really like each other alot…i believe he’s waiting until after he graduates we’ll
be dating, unless he won’t ask me out at all…is it wrong for me to start a
relationship with my ex’s really close friend? i’m really confused about it and i’m
just not sure what to do…HELP!

I like this guy…

admin — Fri, 11 Apr 2008 19:54:23 +0000

I like this guy, but he has a girlfriend. We were chating on im and he says “you
know ive read that if a guy tells a girl about his girlfriend prob they end up
sleeping together, not to sound creeperish or nothing just saying, cuz i remembered
that from something i read today” it just made so confused. What should i do?

I think he/she might be cheating

admin — Thu, 03 Apr 2008 21:02:48 +0000

I heard my boyfriend cheated on me, but he denied it. My friends and other
classmates are telling me he really did, but i have no proof.. He is not the type of
person who would do this to me. We dated for over a year and i feel like it was a
lie the entire time. He treats me with respect and says he loves me all of the
time…I just don’t know what to do..and if i have to, how do i move on from all of
this?