Teen Relationships

admin — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 16:09:17 +0000

Wednesday, June 30, 2010: teenrelationships.org will no longer have the ability to post messages to the ASK TEENS FORUMS. We encourage you to check out our “Ask Teens” page to read about examples written by teens about relationships.

admin — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 15:31:08 +0000

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admin — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:43:03 +0000

Monday, June 29, 2009: teenrelationships.org no longer has chatroom abilities. We encourage you to check out our “Ask Teens” page to post questions about relationships or ask our teen counselors an anonymous question.

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New Chatroom Days!

admin — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 00:03:51 +0000

Thursday, June 4, 2009: We have changed the hours of our chatroom: our chatroom will now be open on Tuesdays and Wednesdays from 5:00pm to 7:00pm Pacific time. Join us then!

If you would like to chat live with a peer advocate outside of those times, go to www.loveisrespect.org or talk to someone on the phone, call our hotline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week at 1-800-300-1080.

admin — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 00:02:38 +0000

Check out our brand new forum!!! You can find it under the “Ask Teens” section.

How do I tell my parents that i’m bisexual??

admin — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 21:25:44 +0000

I’m bisexual and I don’t know how to tell my mom. She is already a little psycho because of my dad so that makes everything harder. What’s the easiest way to tell her? When is the best time to tell her? Should I invite my gay friend over with her parents to convince my mom that isn’t that bad?

I feel like our relationship is only based on sex!

admin — Thu, 22 May 2008 15:16:29 +0000

my boyfriend and i have been dating for alil over a year now. i love him very much and he says he feels the same about me. we had sex for the first time about a month ago. ever since then i keep gettin the feeling that our relationship is turning into just a physical attraction. he doesnt call me anymore or ever just want to watch a movie, go for a walk or just talk to me. everytime we hang out we end up doing sexual things and everytime we talk that all we talk about. im afraid our relationship is becoming based on sex and i want to know wat to do about this?

He always wants to check my phone!

admin — Wed, 21 May 2008 17:13:42 +0000

I need some advice about my issue with my boyfriend. Me and my boyfriend we been together for year and four month and our problem well my problem is that I have this feelings that he don’t trust me cause when he comes to my house and visit me and I text my friends he thinks I’m texting some guys and he always go to my phone and check. I got nothing to hide because I.. like a girlfriend I always tell him everything what’s going on with my life cause he is the only one there for me but it bugs me that he just get my phone and check. I always let him check my phone but sometimes it bugs me cause its my phone not his and he gets mad when I take it from him I don’t know why he have to get mad at me I’m the one suppost to be mad at him…….. And other problem is that when I talk to him about what happens at school or what I do at school he don’t let me finish and gets mad at me and talk shit. I have anger management I can’t deny about that but like I said i like a girlfriend to! him I don’t yell at him and talk shit I get couple minutes to breath and talk to him nicely. I feel like he don’t love me no more because when we met he treated me so sweet and tells me he loves me so much and we never argued but now we always argue he never tells me he loves me and sometimes he treats me sweet but when he feels like it I try everything to keep this relationship going but he don’t try I always tell him if he really loves me but he tells me he does I don’t know what to believe now cause I really love him and I don’t want to loose him….. What should I do talk to him again how I feel or just dump him??????

We had sex and like each other but he still has a girlfriend. What do I do?

admin — Mon, 12 May 2008 22:22:18 +0000

okay so i met this boy at a friends party. i met him through my friend [which is his cousin]. we both exchanged hugs & later on by the end of the night we were making out. we kept talking few days after that constantly. we began to date about a week later. then i broke up with him because there were several times in which he asked if i was down to have sex with him. even after i told him that i wasnt like that and that i was a virgin. he said hed wait for me as long as it took, what most guys say. the next time we saw eachother, which was 4 days later, he asked me if i was already ready. wow, what a way to wait “as long as it took.” so i talked to him about it and he told me that he just figured its what i wanted and that it wasnt that big of a deal. so i borke up with him because i didnt want to be going out with someone if thats all they wanted or if they couldnt be with me without constantly thinking about having sex. i borke up with him that night and we still kept talki! ng every single day after that. even more than usual. it was as if we had become best friends. a month later i realized that i really liked this boy. and that i felt like i was ready to give him another chance because he had proved to me that thats not all he really wanted. one day as we were talking i noticed him being a little weird. i mentioned it & he said myabe it was because he had a new girlfriend. i was surprised when he said that. im not gonna lie or deny the fact that i cried. it hit me real hard. i kind of tried forgetting about him but it didnt work. there was only one buy who i tried talking to but later on he turned into a big time jerk spreading rumors and talking shit. so that only made me bounce back to the only guy i could really rely on, which was jonathan. weve been talking alot ever since we broke up. and now, 4 moths after the break up, weve become more than best friends. we had sex about 2 weeks ago. i dont know how it happened it just did. hes stil d! ating this girl, but according to him its because he cant break up wit h her now because her brothers are threatening him if he hurts her. he claims that the past several times theyve hung out he hasnt had any feelings for her. i dont know what to believe anymore. weve talked about this almost every night for the past month. i told him that if he really does like her then he shouldnt have to deny it to me. id rather him stay with her than lie to me. my question is, what should i do? keep waiting for him to break up with her? or move on?

What’s going on?? I haven’t been myself since we broke up.

admin — Mon, 05 May 2008 17:00:27 +0000

my boyfriend and i broke up with each other in september, and i still, after 8 months, haven’t gotten over him. the reason for our separation is totally ridiculous, and i remeber half of it. my parents didnt want me dating, his friends didnt want him dating me, we were too scared and immature to handle a relationship. but now, he’s released himself from his friends, and my parents are at peace about me dating, but i just dont know how to tell him that i still feel alot of [i dont know if i should say love] strong feelings towards him. and im moving in about two months, so it wont even matter. and i know it sounds neive, seeing as its been used in a shallow manor before by girls just my age, but i know that im in love with him. after we broke up, i havent been the same. i sleep either all the time or not at all, my weight is bouncing up and down the scale, i have huge bags under my eyes now [which is not the most attractive thing], and ive lost my ever so fond good sense of humor, or at least carrying on a good conversation for that matter. ive met alot of guys after him, but they just dont seem to ammount. i just dont feel the same, or better around them. i havent sang in a few months, which is amazing for me, because singing used to be like eating , [a usual thing]. before our relationship, we were good friends for a year. now that we’ve crossed the line between couple and friends, we havent been able to go back. the timing of our relationship was just so wrong, and al l i want to do is start over. i cant even do that now! its not like i havent tried getting over him, but i cant deny what i know is real.

i only hope that things will unfold rightfully, but id also love to know if i could help things to unfold rightfully in any way. sorry this was so long, hope you can get back to me with help soon.