http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/ Fri, 03 Feb 2012 17:58:37 -0800 MyBB http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=251 Fri, 25 Jun 2010 21:14:49 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=251 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=250 Fri, 25 Jun 2010 09:45:21 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=250 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=249 Mon, 14 Jun 2010 12:31:24 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=249 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=248 Mon, 07 Jun 2010 20:48:46 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=248
Since then we are still good friends. We both are graduating from high school (we're both 17) in a couple weeks.

But she sent me this email out of the blue:

"so I am sorry to be emailing this... I know these things are always better said in person... but I mean everything that I say... I am really sorry about the way that I have been lately. I haven't been the easiest to be around and I realize that. I have been really stressed lately and I have been going through a lot. So, I hope that is OK and once again I am sorry."


What does all this mean? Does it mean what it means (as in she's just apologizing for her behavior) or is there a hidden meaning?]]>
Since then we are still good friends. We both are graduating from high school (we're both 17) in a couple weeks.

But she sent me this email out of the blue:

"so I am sorry to be emailing this... I know these things are always better said in person... but I mean everything that I say... I am really sorry about the way that I have been lately. I haven't been the easiest to be around and I realize that. I have been really stressed lately and I have been going through a lot. So, I hope that is OK and once again I am sorry."


What does all this mean? Does it mean what it means (as in she's just apologizing for her behavior) or is there a hidden meaning?]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=247 Wed, 02 Jun 2010 21:09:15 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=247 Plz ppl reply luv quintina!!!!]]> Plz ppl reply luv quintina!!!!]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=246 Wed, 02 Jun 2010 21:09:13 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=246 but when i saw him yesterday out of the blue , my heart skipped a beat , hoping so much that he wouldnt turn his head around , but at the same time , i also hoped that he would .. so that i could smile at him and see his smile once again .

i really really thought i've passed all that , but i realize that i was wrong , i nvr did moved on .]]> but when i saw him yesterday out of the blue , my heart skipped a beat , hoping so much that he wouldnt turn his head around , but at the same time , i also hoped that he would .. so that i could smile at him and see his smile once again .

i really really thought i've passed all that , but i realize that i was wrong , i nvr did moved on .]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=245 Sat, 29 May 2010 10:18:38 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=245 Here's the story!

Me and [ex] broke up July 15. July 25th my cousin was talking to a close friend of hers, [new]. He was in jail. Had been for a year. He asked her to get him a pen-pal. I told her i would write to him. I did. He told me that he was just recently single...the female he was with for 3 years told him it was over in May because she was pregnant by another guy. She waited 10 months...then left him on his birthday. I told him about me and [ex]. We ended up talking everyday for a month...then he asked if i would be his girlfriend. [i basically was already] I said yes. On Sept 2 i found out i was 5 months pregnant. By who...[ex]. I told [new] he said it was fine..that he didn't mind...and that if he got out he would be there for my child. I was surprised that he even still wanted to talk to me because he was in jail and i was pregnant. Well on Sept 7 he told me he loved me. I knew i loved him. We had talked everyday..he was my BEST FRIEND. I know its crazy to think that i could have fallen for someone that i had NEVER in my life met. But i did. He was amazing. My best friend. The ONLY person i could really count on to be there for me. Jan 25 i gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Jan 28 he got out. I thought he would come home to me. WRONG! He went back to the female he was with before he was with me. The one that left him. For 2 weeks i had no idea what to do...its like i was lost without him. Feb 8 he called me. I told him..."I waited 6 months, put 1,000.00 of money on your books, wrote letters, and went to every visitation...for you to go back to her? Your seriously one messed up person..." He did everything in his power to get me to forgive him. I did. And in March we got back together. Everything was great. He started disappearing on Friday's, Saturday's and Sunday's. He wouldn't answer his phone, return text messages. NOTHING. But come Monday morning he wanted to be with me 24/7. I kept letting it slide. Yesterday May 28 he called me at 6:04 and i asked him if we could meet up somewhere because i had plans with my family and wouldn't be done til this morning so i wanted to see him. He said no. That he was busy right that second...but def. later. I called him and text him at 11:11 last night. NO answer no text back. 5:57 this morning he called me. I answered. "hello?" he said "Oh, i shouldn't have called you..I'll let you sleep." "No...its ok...i gotta get up to get ready for work anyways." "No..i'll just call you later." Then he hung up. I text him. "Ok? That was weird. But just know I love you." No text back. I cried. I called back at 6:05 and told him that it was over. That i'm sick and tired of his "disappearing acts". And just not to worry about me anymore. I told him i loved him and wanted to be with him...but he would need to change. And i hung up. He text me at 6:11 and said "What did i do now?" I didn't text back. Its 12:08 and still haven't heard anything from him. I've been crying all morning...and what hurts me more than anything is the fact that he hasn't tried to fix this...he has made no effort to show me he cares.

So...my questions are...
What would you do? Should I call him? Should I text him? Should I let go? Should i stay? Should i fix this? What do you think i should do?]]> Here's the story!

Me and [ex] broke up July 15. July 25th my cousin was talking to a close friend of hers, [new]. He was in jail. Had been for a year. He asked her to get him a pen-pal. I told her i would write to him. I did. He told me that he was just recently single...the female he was with for 3 years told him it was over in May because she was pregnant by another guy. She waited 10 months...then left him on his birthday. I told him about me and [ex]. We ended up talking everyday for a month...then he asked if i would be his girlfriend. [i basically was already] I said yes. On Sept 2 i found out i was 5 months pregnant. By who...[ex]. I told [new] he said it was fine..that he didn't mind...and that if he got out he would be there for my child. I was surprised that he even still wanted to talk to me because he was in jail and i was pregnant. Well on Sept 7 he told me he loved me. I knew i loved him. We had talked everyday..he was my BEST FRIEND. I know its crazy to think that i could have fallen for someone that i had NEVER in my life met. But i did. He was amazing. My best friend. The ONLY person i could really count on to be there for me. Jan 25 i gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Jan 28 he got out. I thought he would come home to me. WRONG! He went back to the female he was with before he was with me. The one that left him. For 2 weeks i had no idea what to do...its like i was lost without him. Feb 8 he called me. I told him..."I waited 6 months, put 1,000.00 of money on your books, wrote letters, and went to every visitation...for you to go back to her? Your seriously one messed up person..." He did everything in his power to get me to forgive him. I did. And in March we got back together. Everything was great. He started disappearing on Friday's, Saturday's and Sunday's. He wouldn't answer his phone, return text messages. NOTHING. But come Monday morning he wanted to be with me 24/7. I kept letting it slide. Yesterday May 28 he called me at 6:04 and i asked him if we could meet up somewhere because i had plans with my family and wouldn't be done til this morning so i wanted to see him. He said no. That he was busy right that second...but def. later. I called him and text him at 11:11 last night. NO answer no text back. 5:57 this morning he called me. I answered. "hello?" he said "Oh, i shouldn't have called you..I'll let you sleep." "No...its ok...i gotta get up to get ready for work anyways." "No..i'll just call you later." Then he hung up. I text him. "Ok? That was weird. But just know I love you." No text back. I cried. I called back at 6:05 and told him that it was over. That i'm sick and tired of his "disappearing acts". And just not to worry about me anymore. I told him i loved him and wanted to be with him...but he would need to change. And i hung up. He text me at 6:11 and said "What did i do now?" I didn't text back. Its 12:08 and still haven't heard anything from him. I've been crying all morning...and what hurts me more than anything is the fact that he hasn't tried to fix this...he has made no effort to show me he cares.

So...my questions are...
What would you do? Should I call him? Should I text him? Should I let go? Should i stay? Should i fix this? What do you think i should do?]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=244 Sat, 29 May 2010 10:15:23 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=244
[ex]=ex boyfriend
[new]=current

Here's the story!

Me and [ex] broke up July 15. July 25th my cousin was talking to a close friend of hers, [new]. He was in jail. Had been for a year. He asked her to get him a pen-pal. I told her i would write to him. I did. He told me that he was just recently single...the female he was with for 3 years told him it was over in May because she was pregnant by another guy. She waited 10 months...then left him on his birthday. I told him about me and [ex]. We ended up talking everyday for a month...then he asked if i would be his girlfriend. [i basically was already] I said yes. On Sept 2 i found out i was 5 months pregnant. By who...[ex]. I told [new] he said it was fine..that he didn't mind...and that if he got out he would be there for my child. I was surprised that he even still wanted to talk to me because he was in jail and i was pregnant. Well on Sept 7 he told me he loved me. I knew i loved him. We had talked everyday..he was my BEST FRIEND. I know its crazy to think that i could have fallen for someone that i had NEVER in my life met. But i did. He was amazing. My best friend. The ONLY person i could really count on to be there for me. Jan 25 i gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Jan 28 he got out. I thought he would come home to me. WRONG! He went back to the female he was with before he was with me. The one that left him. For 2 weeks i had no idea what to do...its like i was lost without him. Feb 8 he called me. I told him..."I waited 6 months, put 1,000.00 of money on your books, wrote letters, and went to every visitation...for you to go back to her? Your seriously one messed up person..." He did everything in his power to get me to forgive him. I did. And in March we got back together. Everything was great. He started disappearing on Friday's, Saturday's and Sunday's. He wouldn't answer his phone, return text messages. NOTHING. But come Monday morning he wanted to be with me 24/7. I kept letting it slide. Yesterday May 28 he called me at 6:04 and i asked him if we could meet up somewhere because i had plans with my family and wouldn't be done til this morning so i wanted to see him. He said no. That he was busy right that second...but def. later. I called him and text him at 11:11 last night. NO answer no text back. 5:57 this morning he called me. I answered. "hello?" he said "Oh, i shouldn't have called you..I'll let you sleep." "No...its ok...i gotta get up to get ready for work anyways." "No..i'll just call you later." Then he hung up. I text him. "Ok? That was weird. But just know I love you." No text back. I cried. I called back at 6:05 and told him that it was over. That i'm sick and tired of his "disappearing acts". And just not to worry about me anymore. I told him i loved him and wanted to be with him...but he would need to change. And i hung up. He text me at 6:11 and said "What did i do now?" I didn't text back. Its 12:08 and still haven't heard anything from him. I've been crying all morning...and what hurts me more than anything is the fact that he hasn't tried to fix this...he has made no effort to show me he cares.

So...my questions are...

What would you do? Should I call him? Should I text him? Should I let go? Should i stay? Should i fix this? What do you think i should do?

Any advice would help. [:]]>
[ex]=ex boyfriend
[new]=current

Here's the story!

Me and [ex] broke up July 15. July 25th my cousin was talking to a close friend of hers, [new]. He was in jail. Had been for a year. He asked her to get him a pen-pal. I told her i would write to him. I did. He told me that he was just recently single...the female he was with for 3 years told him it was over in May because she was pregnant by another guy. She waited 10 months...then left him on his birthday. I told him about me and [ex]. We ended up talking everyday for a month...then he asked if i would be his girlfriend. [i basically was already] I said yes. On Sept 2 i found out i was 5 months pregnant. By who...[ex]. I told [new] he said it was fine..that he didn't mind...and that if he got out he would be there for my child. I was surprised that he even still wanted to talk to me because he was in jail and i was pregnant. Well on Sept 7 he told me he loved me. I knew i loved him. We had talked everyday..he was my BEST FRIEND. I know its crazy to think that i could have fallen for someone that i had NEVER in my life met. But i did. He was amazing. My best friend. The ONLY person i could really count on to be there for me. Jan 25 i gave birth to my beautiful baby boy. Jan 28 he got out. I thought he would come home to me. WRONG! He went back to the female he was with before he was with me. The one that left him. For 2 weeks i had no idea what to do...its like i was lost without him. Feb 8 he called me. I told him..."I waited 6 months, put 1,000.00 of money on your books, wrote letters, and went to every visitation...for you to go back to her? Your seriously one messed up person..." He did everything in his power to get me to forgive him. I did. And in March we got back together. Everything was great. He started disappearing on Friday's, Saturday's and Sunday's. He wouldn't answer his phone, return text messages. NOTHING. But come Monday morning he wanted to be with me 24/7. I kept letting it slide. Yesterday May 28 he called me at 6:04 and i asked him if we could meet up somewhere because i had plans with my family and wouldn't be done til this morning so i wanted to see him. He said no. That he was busy right that second...but def. later. I called him and text him at 11:11 last night. NO answer no text back. 5:57 this morning he called me. I answered. "hello?" he said "Oh, i shouldn't have called you..I'll let you sleep." "No...its ok...i gotta get up to get ready for work anyways." "No..i'll just call you later." Then he hung up. I text him. "Ok? That was weird. But just know I love you." No text back. I cried. I called back at 6:05 and told him that it was over. That i'm sick and tired of his "disappearing acts". And just not to worry about me anymore. I told him i loved him and wanted to be with him...but he would need to change. And i hung up. He text me at 6:11 and said "What did i do now?" I didn't text back. Its 12:08 and still haven't heard anything from him. I've been crying all morning...and what hurts me more than anything is the fact that he hasn't tried to fix this...he has made no effort to show me he cares.

So...my questions are...

What would you do? Should I call him? Should I text him? Should I let go? Should i stay? Should i fix this? What do you think i should do?

Any advice would help. [:]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=243 Sun, 16 May 2010 18:38:23 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=243 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=242 Thu, 13 May 2010 20:52:21 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=242 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=240 Thu, 13 May 2010 03:06:10 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=240 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=239 Mon, 03 May 2010 15:36:30 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=239 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=238 Mon, 12 Apr 2010 09:30:06 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=238 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=237 Thu, 08 Apr 2010 15:55:52 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=237 My girlfriend and I have been going out for two terrific years. I am 16, finishing up my sophomore year currently, while she is 15, finishing freshman year. Yes, it is early, but I start looking into the whole college grind next year and she and I both have our concerns. We are both athletes, but for me it is only a high school thing, I do not wish to go to college on wrestling but rather on academics. She is the other way around, nationally ranked in track and soccer, she is going to be using them to push her along. Now it may have been easier if she was older. She is going to be choosing her college based on scholarships. Likelyhood of the school I choose to be the same one that offers her a scholarship is very unlikely.

Question:
Is there any way that she and I will be able to pull this off? We for sure both want to stay together. My parents did not go to college and believe that I must gopecially because I have a very good oppurtitunity, I do not have it bad thankfully. The chance of them letting me transfer just my second year is more than 'iffy.' My only thought so far has been to propose to her before I go to college. Yes, were young, but maybe the fact of being engaged would help us so much more and prove to everyone were staying together. Any other suggestions out there? Or maybe some words of wisdom or advise from those who have gone through this process succesfully.

Thank you for the help,

Ian[/color]]]> My girlfriend and I have been going out for two terrific years. I am 16, finishing up my sophomore year currently, while she is 15, finishing freshman year. Yes, it is early, but I start looking into the whole college grind next year and she and I both have our concerns. We are both athletes, but for me it is only a high school thing, I do not wish to go to college on wrestling but rather on academics. She is the other way around, nationally ranked in track and soccer, she is going to be using them to push her along. Now it may have been easier if she was older. She is going to be choosing her college based on scholarships. Likelyhood of the school I choose to be the same one that offers her a scholarship is very unlikely.

Question:
Is there any way that she and I will be able to pull this off? We for sure both want to stay together. My parents did not go to college and believe that I must gopecially because I have a very good oppurtitunity, I do not have it bad thankfully. The chance of them letting me transfer just my second year is more than 'iffy.' My only thought so far has been to propose to her before I go to college. Yes, were young, but maybe the fact of being engaged would help us so much more and prove to everyone were staying together. Any other suggestions out there? Or maybe some words of wisdom or advise from those who have gone through this process succesfully.

Thank you for the help,

Ian[/color]]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=236 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 17:20:12 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=236 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=235 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 09:03:13 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=235 (if pictures show up, i'm the black and white picture, brandon is the guy obviously, and christine is the color photo)]]> (if pictures show up, i'm the black and white picture, brandon is the guy obviously, and christine is the color photo)]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=234 Thu, 01 Apr 2010 11:26:51 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=234 I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?]]> I had a gf for six months but we separated after it came to be only about sex (which we had quite often,regrettably). She liked it ALOT, and I did what she said because I didn't want to lose her. I don't know what to do because there is a boy I think I like, but I don't know how to go about it because the boy is openly bi and single. It gets more complicated still though, because the boy I like is friends with my x gf, and she would spread the word that I was bi. I mean, I could keep the relationship under wraps, but if she knew, she'd tell everyone who would listen. The boy is really really cute and that's why I question whether I am besexual or bicurious. Is there any way that I can know which one I am? Or is it possible that I'm gay; because I didn't particularly enjoy my sexual relations with my x gf?]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=233 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 11:25:36 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=233 As i got to know her firends i found that i connected with her friend better
Me and my girlfriend talk about the same things and like the same
stuff but i connect better with the other girl
what should i do and how?]]> As i got to know her firends i found that i connected with her friend better
Me and my girlfriend talk about the same things and like the same
stuff but i connect better with the other girl
what should i do and how?]]> http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=231 Fri, 19 Mar 2010 10:56:00 -0700 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=231 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=230 Mon, 08 Mar 2010 20:00:09 -0800 http://www.teenrelationships.org/forums/showthread.php?tid=230 Thank you.]]> Thank you.]]>